“Personality Development” is one of the
most commonly used psychological terminologies in modern urban India.
Every Year I get invited by schools, colleges and different type of workplaces
to deliver lectures on “personality Development”. Though there are thousands of
aspects of Personality Development, one which is most commonly deficient in a
great majority of people is “the art of Public Speaking”...
Among the lot of things I teach people
on how to develop the art of Public Speaking,
there are 10 simple tips I ask them to carry home and think about.
1 . Nervousness – Even the most
experienced of speakers feel nervous before going on stage. So take it in a
positive stride. If you cannot handle the amount of nervousness, consult a good
counsellor who will teach you instant anxiety relieving techniques.
2. Understand your material perfectly. You
might not know every line by heart, but if you understand it 100% then you can
mould any situation or question in your favour.
3. Create a friendly audience – Before
starting your lecture/speech/presentation greet some of the people in the
audience. Smile towards them. Relax yourself. If you get time, interact with
them before hand and talk on issues non-relevant to the current topic of
discussion.
4. Before starting, Visualize yourself giving a very successful speech.
During Visualization Concentrate on how you deliver the speech, rather than the applause at the end.
5. Remember there always be a few
people who will act funny during your speaking. They might be making faces, or
talking on the phone, or sleeping... If something bothers you, stop your speech
for a moment, point out there mistakes and then continue. This shows the
confidence you have.
6. Attitude – Public speaking is all
about attitude. If you want to succeed, your body will act accordingly. If you
think you will fail, you body will act accordingly. Think Big and Positive
7. The main focus should be on delivering
the core message of your speech/presentation/ lecture.
8. Practice – If standing before 100 people
is difficult for you. Then start by giving speeches in front of 10. Graduate
slowly to 100. If you fail once, don’t worry, try again and again. There is no
harm in trying. And success only comes through trial and error.
9. Everyone has their unique style of
public speaking. Don’t try to completely imitate someone else.
10. When you walk off the stage, no
matter how good or bad you might have performed, don’t ever criticize yourself
immediately. Always and I mean always, the 1st thing to do as you
get down from the stage, is to congratulate and applaud yourself for having
stood up there.
For any further discussion on the above contact me-
Dr.hemant Mittal
Neuro-Behavioural Consultant, Motivational Speaker and Wellness Expert
(MBBS, PG.DPM, M.D.(Mind Mantra Wellness Concepts - Mumbai))
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Neuro-Behavioural Consultant, Motivational Speaker and Wellness Expert
(MBBS, PG.DPM, M.D.(Mind Mantra Wellness Concepts - Mumbai))
Website - www.mindmantra.in
Email - eksoch@gmail.com
WELLNESS CLINIC Address- 15, shreeji plaza, Next to Seawood Station (east), Navi Mumbai, Mumbai (India)
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looks small but great impact if you follow..
ReplyDeletelooks small thing.....but impact great...if you follow..
ReplyDeletereally nice tips for the beginners also.
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