I don't judge.. but you need to...

YOU NEED TO STOP BEING KIDISH!!!
YOU NEED TO MAKE MORE MONEY!!!
YOU NEED TO ADJUST MORE!!!
YOU NEED TO BE LESS ANGRY!!!
YOU NEED TO BE MORE FOCUSED IN LIFE!!
YOU NEED TO..
YOU NEED TO..
YOU NEED TO..

"Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about his or her own."

It's amazing how many people I met at personal and professional level, who carry the false illusion "we don't judge.. we are neutral"...  but are the first to bring out the "you need to..." sentence.!!!

Everyone judges in some way or the other... even God judges you!!!

STOP BEING SELFISH... next time you use the sentence "YOU NEED TO.." .. look into your own self and remember, there are millions of flaws that you also carry...
suggesting a change is different from forcing a change!!!
suggesting a change is different from joking about someone!!!

I once met a manipulator... he would portray as if he is out to save the world... but he had an opinion about everyone... he would just disguise the opinion in "flowery" english... the dumb around him would adore him.. and the intelligent would understand his game plan.

Learn to be true to yourself.. Be open to change... and be 2 feet way from those who judge you.. because under the disguise of "wishing well for you".. they will try control your happiness as per their wishes.

Dr.Hemant  Mittal (Neuro-Psychiatrist and Counselor)
email - eksoch@gmail.com