Psychological research proves that New love produces such excessive amount of pleasure neuro-chemicals in the brain that it can cause you to hallucinate and imagine other things as being too positive.
It decreases your sense of understanding negativity.. and even makes you immune to sarcasm/criticism.
New Love gives a "high" and is addictive equivalent to highly addiction forming psychotropic drugs like "cocaine and LSD".
Scientists and Psychiatrists say that most long term successful relationships (were by love still excites even after years of togetherness) they are able to utilize this phenomenon to bring positive personal, professional and social growth.
Dreams about the future are realistic and one step at a time.
Hence being in touch with reality, they tend to battle major stresses together, with more adjustment and greater success possibility.
Unsuccessful relationships (were love phases out in time) usually get too addicted in enjoying this feeling. They loose themselves in the "dreams about a wonderful future"... eventually leading to an "avoidant" behaviour were only enjoying love is seen as essential.. with decreased concentration on personal, professional and social growth.
Hence "feeling lost" and "unprepared" when the pressure and stress of reality hit them.. leading to extreme mood swings, fights, sadness, guilt, resentment and anguish.
Rumi rightly said -
“Oh break my heart, oh, break my heart again…
Oh break my heart, oh, break my heart again…
So I can love even more"
for any questions on the above, ask to -
Dr.Hemant Mittal (MBBS, DPM, MD(mindmantra))
(Psychiatrist, Motivational Writer and Counselor)
email – eksoch@gmail.com
website – www.mindmantra.in
clinic address- 15, shreeji plaza, next to ice n spice restaurant, opposite seawoods station, seawoods (east)
Navi Mumbai
It decreases your sense of understanding negativity.. and even makes you immune to sarcasm/criticism.
New Love gives a "high" and is addictive equivalent to highly addiction forming psychotropic drugs like "cocaine and LSD".
Scientists and Psychiatrists say that most long term successful relationships (were by love still excites even after years of togetherness) they are able to utilize this phenomenon to bring positive personal, professional and social growth.
Dreams about the future are realistic and one step at a time.
Hence being in touch with reality, they tend to battle major stresses together, with more adjustment and greater success possibility.
Unsuccessful relationships (were love phases out in time) usually get too addicted in enjoying this feeling. They loose themselves in the "dreams about a wonderful future"... eventually leading to an "avoidant" behaviour were only enjoying love is seen as essential.. with decreased concentration on personal, professional and social growth.
Hence "feeling lost" and "unprepared" when the pressure and stress of reality hit them.. leading to extreme mood swings, fights, sadness, guilt, resentment and anguish.
Rumi rightly said -
“Oh break my heart, oh, break my heart again…
Oh break my heart, oh, break my heart again…
So I can love even more"
for any questions on the above, ask to -
Dr.Hemant Mittal (MBBS, DPM, MD(mindmantra))
(Psychiatrist, Motivational Writer and Counselor)
email – eksoch@gmail.com
website – www.mindmantra.in
clinic address- 15, shreeji plaza, next to ice n spice restaurant, opposite seawoods station, seawoods (east)
Navi Mumbai
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