Forgiveness is something you do for Yourself



3 real life cases, whom I met and counseled at Mind Mantra Wellness Center over last week-

1. Mohan is working in the IT sector. Every night he comes home to a wonderful wife and 2 great kids. His life was living a life "socially expected". 3 weeks ago his wife came to my clinic, distraught and sad. The issue, he regularly indulges in sexual activities with "call-girls". Why? He hasn't forgiven her for having had an office affair years ago.

2. Sudha falls into the perfect "homemaker" definition. She is looked upon as super-woman by many. Under this blanket of happiness, she has been sad, lonely and fighting an angry battle against self. She has been married for 17yrs. 3yrs ago her mother-in-law pass away. She hasn't forgotten the emotional tortures the old lady inflicted upon her 16yrs ago. She still hasn't forgiven her husband, nor the deceased lady. Every day those memories flash and irritate her.

3. Rohit looks towards the new e-class mercedes benz with drooling eyes. He dreams of driving one of those beauties one day. Immediately his mind goes into a turmoil and he is clouded with anger and negativity. Without control on self, he is criticizing the unknown owner of the car. He is murmuring profanities without reason. He is angry, very angry. He is angry on his parents for forcing him into a career he hasn't been happy with. He hasn't forgiven them for his "failure" to be rich and famous.

The above 3 seeked help, because they thought it was enough of emotional, financial and sexual suffering they had gone through.
Millions out there suffer everyday...

Forgiveness is not something you do for someone else. It is something you do for yourself.


For any further discussion on the above contact me 

Dr.hemant Mittal
Neuro-Behavioural Consultant, Motivational Speaker and Wellness Expert
(MBBS, PG.DPM, M.D.(Mind Mantra Wellness Concepts - Mumbai))

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