Are you Suffocating your relationship???

A relationship is a like beautiful flower, if you hold it too hard it will suffocate to death. Death of relationship happens when there is no Love left.

Many times you don't realize, but your actions are suffocating a relationship.

Here are 10 signs that your Partners Behavior gives you. These tell that your behavior is suffocating the relationship and immediate action being needed from your side -

1. Communication Gap - This is the clearest hint. And it means serious trouble. If he/she has stopped picking or ignoring your phone calls and text messages. If the amount you talk has decreased then its time for you to analyze and change.

2. Repeatedly complaining about your "controlling" behavior.

3. Increased frequency of Lying - Everyone lies, but when the frequency increases its a Red Flag of danger.

4. Your partner is always giving examples of Single People or other couples.

5. Avoids you - emotionally, physically and socially.

6. Socially - increasingly criticizes you. He/she use humor or examples to complain about your behavior.

7. You argue - with him always asking for space

8. You can feel that your behavior is wrong, but cannot control yourself. You tell this too your partner, and plead for him/her to understand it. But despite all efforts you can feel an emotional distance being created.

9. He/she has become too honest with you. Doesn't think twice before pointing out your drawbacks or negatives. - Personally or socially.

Its important to give space in a relationship. This maintains a certain individuality and keeps a certain freshness in the relationship.

written by -

Dr.Hemant Mittal (MBBS,DPM, MD(mindmantra))
Psychiatrist, Counselor and Motivational Speaker

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